What is family?

  The dictionary version would describe one version of family as "a group of people sharing common ancestry."  But what do you think of when you hear the word family?  Is is just like the definition, or do you mix it up just a bit?  I would say that I've been blessed with an amazing family, and a new family I gained when I got married.  But I would also point out that blood isn't the only thing that makes us family.  To me family also includes those people who are always there when you need them, and even times when you may not think you need them.  They're the selfless people you may call friends.  I've been fortunate in life to have all three types of family in my life.
  I've been given a gift a wonderful husband, and two equally amazing daughters.  Rick is the love of my life, best friend, protector and my biggest supporter.  Jennifer & Megan are bright, funny girls, who bring joy to my life, and make me proud to be called "Mom."  It doesn't end there.....I have my mom who calls me often just to check on me, and sometimes to make sure I've done my homework.  My step mom who is another of my supporters, and reminds me of my dad's love.  Sisters who keep me grounded and are always available when I have good news to share, or maybe just vent.  And a little brother who always got me in trouble, harasses me about my football team, but would be there in an instant if I needed him.  In my life I've also been given grandparents who helped mold me into the person I am today.  Aunts & Uncles who helped give me direction if needed, and cousins who helped me make some great childhood memories.
  Then four years ago I gained another family, that of my husband's.  And until we moved back to his hometown, there were alot I had never met.  But first and foremost is my father-in-law, who is the driving force behind his son.  He is the one who molded Rick into the man he is today.  He holds nothing back and tells it like it is, but he is the first one there should we need anything.  To my mother-in-law, I say thank you for giving birth to this incredible man.  To his numerous cousins I have met, it's been fun to hear the stories of his childhood.  And thank you for inviting us into your homes, sharing a meal with us, and making me feel like I belong. 
  Now to my family of friends, the ones who are always there to laugh with you, cry with you, maybe even end up in jail with you.  Joking.....but that's because we never got caught.  There are some whom I've known for 20+ years, and some I added along the way.  I appreciate all that you've done for me, and continue to do for me and my family to this day.
  I love you all.